You can't really find love unless you love yourself first. It may sound selfish but it really isn't. For you to open your heart to someone else, you need to have an open heart ready to love. A relationship will build on that love you have for yourself.
Once you love yourself and love your relationship, it's important to keep that relationship strong. One simple way is with Kisses 4 Us. When you need to reconnect, draw a Kiss Card and all your problems will be forgotten!